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Family Ministry Moments - February 2024

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The modern world assumes many things that are contrary to the Bible.  The world assumes that God does not exist. The world assumes evolution is a fact.  The world assumes the Bible is just another book full of errors.  They assume Jesus was just a man whose miraculous powers were greatly exaggerated by His followers.  These are not only
assumptions by the culture we live in but they are also common objections to the Christian faith.  People use these “facts” as a reason why they will not become Christians.

This is not a new problem.  From the first day of Jesus' resurrection, people have sought to discredit Christianity.  This has been a problem for the church for the past 2,000 years, which is why Christians have had to develop a defense of our faith.  This is commonly referred to as apologetics.  The word apologetics comes from the Greek word “apologia” which means to give a defense of something, in this case, we are presenting a defense of Christianity. This is what Peter is highlighting in 1 Peter 3:15, “but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” This is the goal of apologetics.

On Sunday nights during Student Gathering, Alex and I have begun a new series.  It is based on the book by Alex McFarland, The 10 Most Common Objections to Christianity.  This book tackles all the questions I mentioned in the first paragraph and more.  We felt it was important for our students to begin to think critically about their faith.  We want them to understand why they believe what they believe.  We also wanted to challenge any that might have bought into the world's lies.  Students can also use this information as they reach out to their friends.

One of the major reasons I wanted to do this series was to get students to start thinking and to ask questions. When I was a teenager there was an unspoken rule in church that you don’t ask certain questions.  I think it is important to ask all kinds of questions, especially ones about faith.  Our God is big, and He is not afraid of our questions.  This is the reason He has given us His Word. We can study the Bible and find answers to all of life's big questions.  God tells us in Jeremiah 29:13, “You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart.”

God’s word is the first place we should look when seeking to answer questions, but we should not discount things like science and the natural world.  It is no surprise that God designed the universe to point to His glory.  If you examine the intricacies of the world, you can’t help but see a grand design that points to the grand designer!  We have given the students so many examples to help them answer questions like, “Does God Exist?” and “Did God create the universe in seven days?”.  One great resource that we have pointed the students to is Answers in Genesis (answersingenesis.org).  Ken Hamm has developed a robust website full of apologetic science.  Science and faith do not stand opposed as the world would have you believe.  Science confirms a great and glorious creator God.

My challenge is don’t be afraid to ask questions!  Ask questions then seek the answers first in God’s word and then in trusted Christian resources.  Don’t just take the word of anyone about what you believe.  Do your own research and study.  You must develop a robust theology so that you can give a defense.  We must all be ready!

“…if Satan can't take away our faith, he might be able to intimidate us to such a degree that we are paralyzed, that we are not quite as bold as we were before. And so, not everybody is called to be a professional apologist, but we are all called to study apologetic issues and to see that there are reasons for the hope that is within us.”
R.C. Sproul - Ligonier.org

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Family Ministry Moments - January 2024

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Can you really change?  New Year’s is a time of reflection.  We think about what we dislike about ourselves and what we need to change.  Often those changes revolve around bad habits.  The top resolutions according to a Forbes article are: improved fitness, improved finances, improved mental health, lose weight, and improved diet.  In the past I have also seen people resolve to drink less, meet certain career goals, travel more, and be more spiritual. What do all these resolutions have in common?  They all have to do with change.  

The desire to change and improve is a uniquely human experience. I believe that this desire is fueled from deep within our souls.  Even if we refuse to acknowledge it, people know they are flawed.  They know they are imperfect and in need of something better.  Christians know this to be true because the Bible reveals the truth to us. “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:23.  God is the standard of perfection.  He is just, righteous, and holy.  Since this is the case and we are His creation, created in His image, I believe there is an innate desire to be better.  We want to overcome this sin-sick world and be perfect.  This is why we have a desire to change.

The question remains: can we change?  The pessimist says that we cannot change, that people virtually remain the same and that change is temporary.  The optimist says that change is surely possible provided one is willing to work for it.  What does the Bible say on the subject?  The Bible is a proponent of transformative change through the power of the gospel.  “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.  The old has passed away; behold, the new has come” 2 Corinthians 5:17In Christ we can change; we go from dead to alive, from sinful to righteous.  This is the only true and lasting change.

This is the change that I have experienced in my own life, as I reflect on my life before Christ and realize how much I ran from God.  I also realize how offensive my sin was to God.  This is not to say that I still don’t struggle with sin despite being freed from it.  The battle with the flesh continues to rage even for the new creation.  This is why we need to continue in our transformation of becoming like Christ.  The work of sanctification (becoming like Christ) is not completed until we go to be with the Lord.  Christians should be people that believe in change and strive to develop throughout our lives. 

The way we change, however, is not through trying, but rather through faith driven surrender.  We must continue to strive for greater and greater faith.  Jesus continually challenged His followers to have faith. “Have faith in God. Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and thrown into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him.” Mark 11:22-23Notice that Jesus tells us to have faith in God.  Faith in ourselves gets us nowhere, only faith in God means anything.

The beginning of true change starts with faith and continues as we surrender daily to the Lord.  There is no amount of trying that is going to bring us lasting change, it is only when we stop trying and start surrendering, we truly find hope. “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” Romans 12:2. When we submit to the Lord we can be transformed.

This new year, take time to reflect on where you are personally, physically, and spiritually.  It is a great time for self-assessment and, as you reflect, remember to take your deficiencies to the Lord.  God cares about all the concerns in your heart.  Whatever you are struggling with, ask God to help you.  With faith driven surrender to the Lord we can change to become more like Christ!

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