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Family Ministry Moments - December 2024

It is that time of the year when Christmas dominates our lives.  Each year it seems like the stores put out decorations earlier and earlier.  It also seems like people put out decorations in their homes earlier.  I know some that put up their trees as soon as Halloween is over.  I was always someone who liked to wait until after Thanksgiving.  This year my wife talked me into putting the tree up in the middle of November since Thanksgiving came so late in the month.  Now, don’t get me wrong, I love Christmas, I am not a Grinch.  This year my heart has grown three sizes, and I have enjoyed having the decorations up earlier.  Christmas does bring a certain joy to life so who knows you might find me putting my tree up on November 1st next year. 

Christmas is special not just because of the decorations. The decorations physically mark the change in seasons, but Christmas is special because of Christ.  C.S. Lewis said in Mere Christianity, “The Son of God became a man to enable men to become sons of God."  He was pointing out that the union of God and man established in Christ was unique.  I would argue that, more than anything, this is what makes Christmas special.

This union of man and God in Christ is referred to as the hypostatic union. Hypostasis is the Greek work for subsistence. This is important because it helps define the person of Christ.  This is best outlined in the definition that came out of the Council of Chalcedon in AD 451, which says in part, “...our Lord Jesus Christ. This same one is perfect in deity, and the same one is perfect in humanity; the same one is true God and true man, comprising a rational soul and a body. He is of the same essence as the Father according to his deity, and the same one is of the same essence with us according to his humanity, like us in all things except sin.”

You might be surprised to learn that the identity of Jesus was a hotly debated topic until it was settled in AD 451.  The view in the Chalcedonian Definition was one held by the apostles and early church fathers but as heretics infiltrated the church false doctrines were spread among the believers.  False teachers stated that Jesus was created by the Father and thus less than God the Father and not truly equal.  Others said Jesus had a human body but not a human mind, thus separating him into two parts. Still, others said that Jesus had two natures stuffed into one body.  These were just some of the heretical views about the identity of Jesus.

Now you might be reading this saying what is the big deal?  It seems like we are splitting hairs.  The problem with the heretical views is when they are played out in the person of Jesus it makes it impossible for Him to be our savior.  For Jesus to accomplish the work of salvation He had to be fully God and fully man.  Thus, the two natures of Jesus occur as one person or one subsistence.  This view supported by Scripture is the only way He could be the one to pay the penalty for sin. Jesus is unique in this way.  There is only one Lord and Savior of the universe.

This is what makes Christmas so special! Jesus didn’t just come as a cute little baby; He came as the fulfillment of all of God’s promises and the only hope of the world.  As Wayne Grudem says, “This is by far the most amazing miracle of the entire Bible- far more amazing than the resurrection and more amazing even than the creation of the universe.  The fact that the Infinite, omnipotent, eternal Son of God could become man and join himself to a human nature forever, so that infinite God becomes one person with finite man, will remain for eternity the most profound miracle and the most profound mystery in all the universe.”

So this Christmas don’t just celebrate the birth of Jesus, celebrate the amazing miracle that is the birth of Jesus! Our salvation, our hope, our everything depends on this amazing miracle.  Let’s remember to worship God this Christmas as the great miracle worker who saved us in this extraordinary way! Merry Christmas!

For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. 2 Corinthians 5:21

Family Ministry Moments - November 2024

Kids Ministry Serving Opportunities

11 AM Worship Hour

• 1st - 2nd Grade Kids Life Group Leader and Assistant Leader
• 3rd - 5th Grade Kids Life Group Assistant Leader

Contact me if you are interested in learning more about these opportunities!

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A few years ago Lifeway Research published a huge study about discipling children who will have a strong faith into adulthood.  The study was published in a book by Jana Magruder called Nothing Less.  They identified 10 spiritual influencers that have an impact on your child's spiritual health.  I did a series of podcasts on these influencers a few years ago.  You can find the first episode at https://ohbcfamilies.podbean.com/e/episode-1-modern-parenting/  

The spiritual influences are things you would expect–parents who encourage prayer, serving, Christian music, and missions are important influencers; however, there was one influence that blew the others away.  The one that moved the needle the most in the area of spiritual health was Bible reading.

Parents who encouraged Bible reading in their homes were far more likely to have children who stuck to their faith into adulthood.  Barna Research indicated in 2019 that the church dropout rate among college students was 64% (https://www.barna.com/research/resilient-disciples/).  There is an epidemic among Christian families that must be addressed, but waiting until children are in college is too late!  We must address this problem early, preferably starting when children are toddlers. 

When children are little it is easy to introduce them to the Bible.  Many parents I know have a bedtime routine that includes reading.  Reading the Bible and praying naturally fits into this time.  As children grow, life gets very busy and times like this can become more difficult.  Parents must make Bible reading a priority. I have seen some families
incorporate a family devotion time at a time that is convenient for them, like dinner time, or in the morning before everyone heads out the door.  In our stage of life, we now have three teenagers, the routine that we like is to have a family prayer time before bed and then encourage everyone (even the adults) to go do a devotion or Bible reading and personal prayer time.

Do we do this every night? I wish, sometimes we forget or our schedule gets messed up.  The point is not to be legalistic about it, the studies indicate that regular (meaning most of the time) Bible reading has a great impact on children’s faith.  So the challenge is for parents to find what works for their family with the time they have.

While this study is very enlightening, we don’t need a study to tell us that God’s Word is important.  God’s Word testifies to its importance. Mediate on these familiar verses:

• Psalm 119:105  - Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.
• Matthew 4:4 - “It is written, “‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”
• 2 Timothy 3:16-17 - All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work
  Do you want a strong faith? Do you want your children to have a strong faith? Read God’s Word!!!