Our Blog

Filter By:
Showing items filed under “Brian Van Doren”

Student Ministry January 2017

main image

Dear Church Family,

Did you know that the average reader could read the Bible all the way through 16 times in a 30 year span? The problem is, many of us don’t think in terms of 30 years. Honestly, many of us don’t think in terms of more than just a couple years. Many of us think in terms of one year, especially in the new year. Often this is very helpful. It gives us goals and plans that we set forth to accomplish (hopefully) worthy achievements. But, there is a problem with this kind of thinking. It is often shortsighted and makes us develop unrealistic goals. It is very difficult to be motivated to accomplish an unrealistic goal. We need longer goals. Our lives are not sprints, they are marathons and we must run the race with endurance. Not only do we need to manage our lives as such, but we must also demonstrate such living to the younger generations.

Many students dread the question: “so what are you going to do when you graduate?” This question drives at the one thing students don’t want to do; think about the future. And it is no wonder. Our culture is a “here and now” culture that wants nothing to do with longevity and planning. It emphasizes your desires “now” and disregards your desires “then.” This is a tragedy, but many of us Christians contribute to this kind of thinking as well. We are guilty too of asking how to fulfill our immediate desires rather than seeking to be faithful here and now waiting for God to fulfill our desires then.

This is true and it is obvious when we start to ask ourselves how much time we spend reading the Word. But do not be discouraged. This is not meant to make you feel a burden to read your Bible for an hour every day. That always leads to exhaustion, frustration, and finally giving up. Is that not how most of our new year’s resolutions go? This is, rather, a request and an encouragement to be faithful and to look at the big picture. Reading your Bible all the way through and becoming familiar with God’s story of creation, fall, redemption, and restoration is much easier than you might think. The statistic above was calculated based on reading the Bible for 5 minutes every day. Just 5 minutes. What if when you were nearing the end of your life you had confidence in God’s truth and salvation because you had read it entirely over 16 times? What if your children or grandchildren saw you reading the Bible every day? What kind of impact and change could that produce in your life and the life of those around you? And only in 5 minutes?

This year, the first and best way you could help me and our students would be for you to forget some outlandish/unrealistic resolution and resolve instead to look at the big picture. Choose to fight for faithfulness every day. Resolutions are only good if they have the big picture in mind and are reasonably achievable. Is daily time with God reasonably achievable in your life? Maybe not an hour, but some time at all? I think it is for all of us, including children and students. But why should we expect them to strive for this if we do not. How can I request this from you if I do not pursue it myself? But if we do resolve for this kind of faithfulness and this kind of longevity, what kind of impact should we expect to see in our church and in the lives of the younger generation? I think a bigger one than we can imagine. So will you help me? I pray that you have been and will continue to help me be an example to our students as to what faithfulness looks like. We must show them with our words and mouths what a life-long Christian looks like.

God bless, and may you have a wonderful and faithful 2017!

Brian Van Doren

 

Posted by Brian Van Doren with

Student Ministry December 2016

main image

 

Dear Church Family,

I hope you are just as excited about the Christmas season as I am! While it may not be all that it is cracked up to be, the Christmas season is a great time for us as Christians to share our faith in Jesus with a world of lost and self-centered souls. The commercialism of this time of year is to be lamented, but we cannot let selfish consumerism quench the truth of the gospel that we can so easily point to at Christmas time! I hope you will celebrate (as we should normally) the wonderful reality that our Lord became flesh in order to take the punishment of death that we deserved for our sins. I also hope that we all will share that truth with the lost people we see around us.

What does this time of year usually mean for our students though?? Often it means telling family members how they can best appease their desires for worldly goods. There is nothing wrong with letting people know how they can best bless you with a gift, but it is utterly devastating if that is the only thing our students are thinking about. If you are a parent or grandparent, I encourage you to take some time this Christmas season to sit down and talk with your children/grandchildren about the true meaning of Christmas. If you have prayed for opportunities to share the gospel with your young-ones, the Christmas season is one answer to that prayer. What better time than now to go shopping with your student(s) and ask them what they think Christmas is all about and how that should affect their lives? Even if you don’t have children or grandchildren here at Oakhill, there are plenty of students who need spiritual parents to reach out to them and show them the gospel this Christmas. It is my prayer that we would show our students at Oakhill the gospel in a fresh way this season.

One way we hope to accomplish that this December is by discussing the good news of Peace with God through Christ. Peace is not something we often talk about. We mention it as a good ideal, but we rarely discuss it as a genuine reality for believers today. It is Jesus who brings peace between God and man. Peace on earth is the good news of Jesus’ arrival on earth. Because of Jesus and his sacrifice for our sins, we can have genuine fellowship with God and other believers in Christ. Genuine peace in fellowship can be hard to find, but it is not impossible to have. It is the peace of Christ that we pursue in our relationships here on earth. Christmas is a time for us to be reminded that Jesus left his heavenly throne to be born a peasant and die on a cross so that we can have real peace and fellowship with God and each other. I am so happy he did that! I hope that truth gives you joy as well!

The student ministry will be expressing some of our joy together on December 14 at our annual Christmas party! This year’s theme is Christmas Movies/Characters. We will dress up as our favorite Christmas movie characters, play some games, and have a white elephant gift exchange! We will talk about the meaning of Christmas and enjoy such sweet fellowship. If you can join us, then you are more than welcome! Just because it is a “youth” Christmas party, it doesn’t mean adults are unwelcome. We would love to see students and adults continue to build and grow relationships with one another this December, and what better time to do that than at a party? If you are interested in hanging out with the students, either at this Christmas party or just in general, come talk to me about how I can help you get connected.

Merry Christmas, and may God bless you and your family!

Brian Van Doren

 

 

Posted by Brian Van Doren with

12...2627282930313233343536Next